I just realized while typing the title that I've already made a blog of this before but I knew it was too emotional. I mean the whole blogspot was too emotional so I deleted everything. And now, I am about to write a blog talking about the same guy as when I wrote the first one.
The thought of just writing about him again makes me wonder how deeply I am in love with this person. I'm aware that I don't believe in love at my age but I think I am in love; the more that I deny it. A lot of people had asked advice from me about how their relationship is gonna be and things like that. In some quotations, they say that people who advice can't actually advice themselves. That's true, 'cause advising that not literally mean that they decide for the person but they somehow change the perspective of the person.
It still depends on the person if he or she will choose to follow what is advised to her or not. With me, I ask for advice just to remind me what is the right decision to make. For others, they really take it seriously and may end up blaming the person you've asked help from, which is bad. So, in the end when I actually advice to other people, I tell them it's still their decision if they want to follow what I told them but I also reason out why they have to follow what I'm thinking.
Recently, a lot of my friends have vented/ranted about guys they just knew. I don't know why but when I tell to do this and that, they ask why and I act so conceited. (HAHA) I just have this heavy feeling that they have to follow me. For the past years, my vibes in some things were never wrong. Gladly speaking. So yeah, maybe that's the reason I'm confident enough to tell them what I'm feeling.
For all the readers out there... treat this as the core of what you believe.
"BELIEVE IN WHAT YOU BELIEVE IN 'CAUSE CHANGE CAN CHANGE YOU."
-Mm Operario
It's your own interpretation that will help you decide.
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